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November 01, 2004 -- 6:30 PM
posted by eric

for those in liberal arts hell:

Submit your Application for Degree form (available from the Faculty of Arts, Undergraduate Student Services Office, 6-7 Humanities) as soon as possible. The deadline to apply for Spring 2005 convocation is February 01, but students are encouraged to apply early (by November 08) to ensure that their programs have been checked well in advance of the beginning of Winter term.

November 01, 2004 -- 6:23 PM
posted by *andy thompson

Who: You - yes, you!
What: Live [Taped] Daily Show: Prelude to a Recount
Where: Andy's House
When: 10:00 - 11:00 (a two hour delay because Jeremy and Beck hate freedom have class)
Why: Because TV is your one true God


November 01, 2004 -- 5:53 PM
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November 01, 2004 -- 4:37 PM
posted by hank

Howdy all, first time on board the 'damnyouparas' msg board. Looks good, my hats off to you Par.

Ng's, my email addy is gatorage@hotmail.com. Keep me up to date on how your album progresses. Christmas release correct?

November 01, 2004 -- 3:29 PM
posted by alison

I never said we had to start counting races. i just thought it was frustrating - from my point of view - that someone would use a majority of white people, and only blacks in the "bad guy" scenarios of a website. albeit, yes, it was a fairly obviously right-wing website... I just thought I'd point it out. Never once did I intend to suggest that we count races. Had I counted races, my life would've been entirely different, and probably a lot weirder than this. My whole life I've been surrounded by multiracial friends, and I celebrate that, but I don't make a concerted effort to befriend multiracial people - just in case you thought that might be my motivation (apparently I need to explain myself to the nth degree here) - it just happens. And I thought it was something worth pointing out that even though we're in this wonderfully diverse world, that we can have all these friends, and be these people of multiple ethnic backgrounds, there are still people who "don't get it." Who by their attempt at trying to fit in, exemplify those stereotypes of "ignorance" and "bigotry" or whichever other stereotype (or negative word) you would like to use.

and I'm sorry, maybe it is just me, but I still see not talking about things like antisemitism as being ignorant of the ongoing problem that exists. Sure, within our group, we have this wonderful thing where we don't think about eachother as races or genders or sizes or whatever, and we are just people... but those rose coloured glasses have to come off somewhere outside of that context. Perhaps I'm just trying to attone for the sins of my ancestors... who knows.

November 01, 2004 -- 1:35 PM
posted by Par

"so perhaps I'll just muzzle myself from now on."

Sorry, Alison, that wasn't really the (or, at least, my) intent. It's great that you and others are conscious of prejudices that exist. My feeling, though, is that we've gone over too far to the other side; that of self-muzzling "tolerance", where we restrain ourselves for some ideal of tolerance and, in so doing, create a prejudice against ourselves. My take was that, while it's important for diversity to be recognized, it shouldn't be (nor should it have to be) carefully measured and rationed out. I like to think (and hope) it's true that in our group it's not really issue; that just as we don't count the number of people with different hair colours or eye colours, we don't tally races.

"It's hard having at least three distinct races in your make-up, and not being able to identify fully with any of them."

I don't think that it is possible to fully identify with your heritage in this country, even if you aren't a mix. On the other hand, I don't believe that, no matter how far from our origins we are removed, we are (or can be) completely free of their influence either. I know, as far as I go, I end up delightfully in the middle between Indian and Canadian cultures (a fact that frustrates my cousins, but one about which they can do nothing.)

November 01, 2004 -- 11:24 AM
posted by Par

November 01, 2004 -- 10:44 AM
posted by Al



Here is a link to the holly grail of old engineering junk. Probally won't find it interesting but its worth a look if you ae bored.

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November 01, 2004 -- 8:48 AM
posted by Al



If we're going to start talking about the wizard... Can we talk about other 80's nostalgia as well? I'll start by talking about old cartoon shows, when saturday was the day for kids to just sit back and watch cartoons. What happened?

November 01, 2004 -- 8:42 AM
posted by alison

okay... I get it. you all think what I did was horridly ignorant... so perhaps I'll just muzzle myself from now on. Perhaps I'm trying my best to understand how I fit into the whole multicultural framework that Canada's so proud of... and that I'm a product of. It's hard having at least three distinct races in your make-up, and not being able to identify fully with any of them for the fact that I was raised as a person and not a race... and heritage was just a byproduct of my parentage, not something to embrace or seek identity from.

Anyway, yes, I agree with you all. Perhaps I really have no place criticizing what I see in anything. Perhaps I should keep my knee-jerk reactions to myself. But perhaps I also deserve to see the multicultural mosaic everyone professes exists in this world, but no one fully acknowledges in the media or every-day life. Dialogue is dialogue, no matter how it's created or how it's perceived. And we've had some pretty good dialogue over this issue if you ask me.

I also agree that we cannot erase all the prejudicial opinions that exist, and that some of them might be good to keep. But that doesn't mean that we can't also recognize shortcomings. I'm all for reading texts etc. that have racist/feminist/etc-ist underpinnings like the Merchant of Venice... for what they are as works, and also for what it teaches us of where we've come from and how far we still have to go... but maybe that's just me. and so be it if it is.

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